The multiple-forms approach to control.
Scholars have always deemed control to be fundamental in the parenting context, but its characterization has changed over time. Early scholars defined control in terms of pressure, intrusiveness, and domination, viewing it as detrimental to children. At the same time, however, they acknowledged that it was also maladaptive for parents to allow children free rein, as children require some guidance. In contrast, contemporary work has focused on multiple forms of control, some of which are characterized not by pressure, intrusiveness, or domination, but rather by guidance as well as other characteristics. We refer to this framework as the multiple-forms approach. Schaefer was one of the first to identify more than one form of parental control. His circumplex model included psychological control versus autonomy as well as what he labeled firm versus lax control. He defined a continuum of psychological control versus autonomy; psychological control included the presence of parental dominance, aggression, rejection, and capricious discipline, whereas autonomy was defined as the absence of such characteristics. Firm versus lax control included the absence versus presence of permitting extreme independence (e.g., allowing children to go anyplace they like without asking) and lax discipline (e.g., letting children get away without doing the work they have been told to do). Although the dimension of firm versus lax control may have appeared to be new, it was present in earlier depictions of parenting, albeit not as a distinct dimension of control. For example, Symonds advocated that parents avoid being excessively submissive to children, and Baldwin argued that a key aspect of the democratic parenting style was providing children with rules and regulations for their protection. Continuing the trend of distinguishing among multiple forms of control, Baumrind delineated a variety of forms of control. Echoing Schaefer’s psychological control versus autonomy, Baumrind characterized authoritarianism as including, among other things, parents not sharing decision-making power with children, assuming a stance of personal infallibility, and becoming inaccessible when displeased. Similar to Schaefer’s firm versus lax control, firm enforcement involved such practices as requiring children to pay attention, not being coerced by children, and enforcing compliance after initial noncompliance. Baumrind also focused on parents’ encouragement of independence and individuality. Her work suggested that authoritative parenting, characterized by high firm enforcement, high encouragement of independence and individuality, and low hostility, was beneficial for children. In contrast, authoritarian (high firm enforcement, low encouragement of independence and individuality, and high hostility) and permissive (low firm enforcement, high encouragement of independence and individuality, and low hostility) parenting appeared to be detrimental.
In more contemporary work, Steinberg and colleagues used the term psychological autonomy granting to denote the extent to which parents employ non-coercive democratic discipline and encourage children to express their individuality—akin to Baumrind’s encouragement of independence and individuality. Drawing from this work as well as Schaefer’s, Barber defined psychological control as parents’ ‘‘attempts to intrude on the psychological and emotional development of the child (e.g., thinking processes, self-expression, and attachment to the parent)’’. Scholars frequently define such control as parents’ love withdrawal and guilt induction.when children disobey. Psychological control predicts heightened internalizing symptoms and other psychological problems among children. In their work on parenting, Steinberg and colleagues described another form of control that included monitoring of and setting limits on children’s behavior, which these investigators termed strictness-supervision. Barber labeled such parenting behavioral control, which he described as parents’ ‘‘attempt to manage or control children’s behavior". Barber, as well as others, operationalized behavioral control as parents’ monitoring of children’s behavior outside of the home (e.g., how much parents try to know where their children are after school); scholars have also operationalized such control as parents’ involvement in making decisions for children. Behavioral control predicts decreased externalizing symptoms and increased achievement among children.

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